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Deplorable. I have no words

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There is a key variable in these conversations (moral panic) which are rarely, if ever discussed.

They have to do with consent - parental consent. The only one consenting for a child to indulge in material which may make them sad / deranged / promiscuous / belligerent / anti-social etc. is the parent.

The only one with a responsibility to control it is the parent.

I remember a big issue in the 90’s was hyperbolically characterized as children watching TV from wake-up to sleep, which naturally affected every aspect of their life, particularly the rather paradoxical increase in aggression and obesity, and the usual bugaboos of promiscuity, drug use and you-name-it.

The American Academy of Pediatrics [which today recommends sterilization for masculine adolescent behavior in girls and feminine adolescent behavior in boys - super rational group] really got it together in an extremely serious report.

https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/96/4/786/60287/Children-Adolescents-and-Television

They were 30 years behind actually.

A rough timeline:

1950s – Comic books

1950s – Rock ’n’ roll

1960s – Television

1960s – Counterculture / psychedelic music

1970s – Dungeons & Dragons

1970s – Video arcades

1970s – Heavy metal

1980s – Satanic Panic

1980s – Slasher films / VHS

1980s – Home video games (Nintendo/Sega)

1990s – Rap & hip-hop

1990s – The Internet

1990s – Violent video games (Doom, Mortal Kombat)

2000s – MySpace / early social media

2000s – Cell phones & texting

2000s – Emo/goth/scene culture

2010s – Smartphones

2010s – YouTube / influencers

2010s – TikTok

2020s – AI algorithms

2020s – Discord / online gaming communities

2020s – VR / metaverse

[my favorite irony is that parents used to be in a panic about children having sex; now it’s about teens not having sex as far as I can tell]

What is in common?

Only parents can consent for kids to pursue these activities. Kids can get around dullish-parents. Parents blame anything except themselves. To parents this always leads to a type of panic.

So, which of the following behaviors is Facebook (the internet/rock music/video games, YouTube, TV, Ticktock) actually responsible for:

pregnancy/abstinence, addiction/anhedonia, obesity/anorexia, violence/passivity, achievement obsession/poor academics, hypersexualization/withdrawal, risky/risk-phobic, narcissism/hiding, over and under connected (at the same time of course), activism/helplessness, high emotionality/numbness, Puritanism/hedonism, mature too early/never mature, asceticism/hyper-materialism, you can add so many more.

TL;DR

I don’t buy this panic.

I don’t buy any parental panic for the last 80 years.

They are all effortlessly disprovable.

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